Like in this social media craze, you’ll never be enough. I remember when I first start using Instagram. It was so much easier then what it is now. You could just post freely and not care how many likes or comments you got.
Now, it’s all a game. It’s a who can do it better. Who gets more likes or more comments. I often get so down on myself. Is my content not IG worthy? Am I doing this all the wrong way? Why don’t I feel connected like before?
Then I remembered, people only show you what THEY want, they don’t show the chaos behind that photo. They don’t show you the struggles they deal with. Most of the time, they don’t show you the real and raw truth.
You see, I deal with anxiety. Many others do also. The feeling of not feeling worthy, not feeling creative, not feeling anything at all. You just get so down on yourself and second guess every single thing.
I sometimes just want to quit. I want to just delete my Instagram and just forget about it all. Then I remember all the connections I’ve made. With people, with brands. The amazing group of women I’ve come to know from this little app is incredible. They uplift me, they empower me.
These days it’s so hard to find “your tribe”. Everyone can pretend to be whatever they want on social media. They can be nice to your face and say the nastiest things before your back. That’s why I’m thankful for the girls I’ve met and come to love like family.
They don’t judge me (well maybe they do when it comes to all my rae dunn or plants haha). They don’t down me. They are real and raw with me and that’s what I love. So when I feel down and when i feel “unworthy” I go to my girls. I know I can always count on them to help me remember my worth.
I compare my house, my life, my body, my decor, everything and when it comes down to it, I know im worthy. I love this life i’ve built and even though I have a long way to go, it’s mine. It’s what I’ve built. What I’ve worked so hard for. I’ve come along way. I’ve pushed myself, I’ve worked my butt off and what I have is special.
Because I may not have the fanciest house or prettiest things, but I’m worthy and So are you.
Stop comparing yourself, because somewhere, someone out there is wishing they had what you do. Love yourself, love your flaws.
Be you. Stay true to you. Don’t let comparison get you down.
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xoxo, until next time.
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