I decided to write this blog to keep myself accountable for all my goals this next year. 2020 was a very crazy year, unpredictable, scary and just downright wrong. I had all these goals for myself and I did meet some of them like blogging more but some others I didn’t. So here ill be sharing all of my goals for 2021. I want to make it my year. 2020 my anxiety was at an all time high so let’s start with that.
One of my goals is to not let my anxiety control me anymore. I hit a lot of hard roads this year with my anxiety and with COVID. It was so tough to overcome. I need to make time for ME. Go out with my girlfriends or just have a day to myself at home. A big thing for me personally is clutter. My anxiety is so so bad when I feel like my house is cluttered. So decluttering, which I’ve already started. I do room by room and it feels so good. I did a blog on decluttering already but I’m doing another one that helps you figure out where to start. It can be so overwhelming, especially if you’ve never decluttered before. You can check out my previous blog on decluttering HERE. Stay tuned for my next coming up really soon.
My next goal is to be MORE PRESENT. Being a blogger and content creator is so very time consuming. I feel like I’m always working, always running around, getting stuff for collabs shooting content, writing blogs, checking emails, it’s so hard to keep up with everything and give me kids the time they need. Aubrey is in school so when she gets out, I do put my phone down and spend time with her. Dinner, books, movies. I just really want to start focusing more on my kids. They are growing up so fast and before I know it they’ll be grown and wont want my attention anymore. So 2021 I’m going to be more present. I will still have to do collabs obviously as it’s my income but I’m going to make a set time to work and a set time for my babies. I think this will also help my anxiety so much.
Another big one for me in my Pinterest. I was doing really well for awhile and even got up to 15m and was getting 40,000 views to my blog a month but then I stopped. I got exhausted, I got overwhelmed and I just gave up and stopped pinning. So I’m going to ad this to my schedule as well and make the time to pin and work on my Pinterest again. It helped me in so many aspects and honestly I loveee Pinterest. Here we grow 2021!
My marriage. I’m no perfect wife and my husband isn’t a perfect husband but when you have kids, it’s so easy to forget who you were together and who you were apart from having kids. So I’m going to make sure find the time for date nights once or twice a month and do little things to make him know he’s appreciated. He works so hard and is honestly so amazing but I’m a female and get dramatic, so he doesn’t know how much I appreciate him and that’s got to change. We’ve been together just about 10 years and we’ve come so far together so this is a must to continue and grow together.
The biggest one of them all… it’s so embarrassing to talk about honestly but I don’t have my license. So a huge goal is to get my license. My anxiety definitely took over with that one. I’d flinch in the car and have full on panic attacks. I just couldn’t do it. I’d always think of the absolute worst and just picture me dying in a car accident. A lot of this comes from when I was a child. I was 4 and we were in an accident and drove into a lake and I remember seeing the water build up so fast. It definitely traumatized me and gave me some sort of PTSD with cars. Since then I’ve been in a few accidents but nothing insane. I got into one when I was 6 months pregnant with DJ and Aubrey was in the car as well. I feel ready now though. I didn’t want to force my self and I’m so glad I didn’t. Now I just need to study cause I’m so bad under pressure. I know how to drive but the damn written test is going to get me cause ill know the answer and still click the wrong one… (lord) Time to take my life into my hands!
These aren’t all of my goals but most of them and I feel pretty confident to say I will hit all of these goals. This year has been a crazy ride that’s for sure but I’m not letting 2021 get the best of me. I’m going to do my best and make sure it’s mine. I’m ready for it!
Tell me below what’s your goal for 2021?
Xoxo until next time, Cheyenne.
These are amazing goals!! The driving test will be a breeze. You got this mama! My goal is to be present.
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Literally aiming to become successful with blogging. I need it to work and I’m ready to commit. I love your goals and super proud of you for working on your driving.